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After taking some time to reflect on the life of Michael Jackson, I realized it is still a huge issue for people today.

I question whether he loved the skin he was in, or better yet, whether he loved himself for who he was. Sadly, today, many people still don't know how important it is to simply love the skin you're in.

That phrase can be applied in so many different ways.

So many young people across the world, young children, teens, young adults and even "grown folk," have difficulties at times loving themselves for who they are.

For someone who takes up a sport or hobby that's different than what their friends are involved in, there may be discomfort in standing out from the crowd. It's definitely okay to be different, but everyone needs help along the way. Here are a few tips:

Parents: Teach your children that the person they see reflected in the mirror is a beautiful person.

Young people: When your friends try new hobbies or activities (that aren't dangerous or illegal) that are different from the things that they normally do, support that friend in their efforts.

Need a few examples? Look at Venus and Serena Williams, Tiger Woods and Lupe Fiasco. They all went out and did something that was different than the so-called established "norm" and enjoy what they're doing immensely.

I mean, think about it: How many hip-hop fans thought they'd be listening to—and like—a hip-hop artist who rapped about skateboarding!

Some of the most beautiful accomplishments in life come from people who dare to be different and love themselves. It's what makes life so interesting and gives people like you and me inspiration to be great.

So, in short, just remember to love yourself, embrace other's differences and love the skin you're in. It's the only way to live.